Sometimes we just need to vent. So……. I have an ex that decided to sleep with other women while we were married. One of which he got pregnant during our marriage. Once we were finally divorced (my doing), he married said person. It took a long time to get past the betrayal, but I came to actually be glad of it. My life has gotten infinitely better since the divorce. I no longer struggle financially or question my worth. I share a daughter (my youngest) with this particular ex, so I have to communicate with him. Now, here is something to know about me. I do NOT speak bad about my ex or his wife. I try to not speak about them at all, unless my daughter starts the conversation. I believe in setting a good example for your children. That being said…….. it is not surprising that my ex and his wife do not worry about the setting a good example. My children have all informed me that they talk bad about me. They do not care when they upset any one of my children by doing this. Recently, my daughter sent me a message seeming upset to let me know that my ex’s wife had dedicated a song to me called “Pray for you” by Jaron Lowenstein. At first I just let my daughter know that she is just looking for attention and not to worry about it. I had never heard of the song, but said something to a friend of mine. My friend looked the song up and got angry. She sent me a copy of the lyrics. At first I started laughing, thinking that she acts like she is back in middle school. Then I started thinking about the lyrics and how it says “you can’t go hatin’ others Who have done wrong to you” ……I’d love to know when I did something wrong to her. I have always been cordial and tolerant in order to keep my daughter from catching any grief (which apparently she does anyway). So while I don’t give 2 flying monkeys what my ex or his wife thinks of me, it really pissed me off to find out that she is basically wishing me dead IN FRONT OF MY DAUGHTER. No wonder my daughter was upset. I mean exactly what kind of example are they trying to set?!

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