Since I posted something for all the women out there, it is only fair that I do the same for the men. Just so you know though; since I am a female, this will still be from a woman’s perspective! Just saying!

First off, I have spoken to several men in order to understand what they want/like better. So let me make this clear to all the women that read this post…..MEN ARE VISUAL! This does not make them superficial or shallow. Lets be real, women want chemistry also. While a good sense of humor and a bit of stability can help a woman get passed a man’s looks….it cannot help when there is zero chemistry. That being said, men just tend to look for the chemistry first. A lot of women get offended by that, but I have come to the realization that it can actually help in the long run. Meaning: Women – do you want a guy to stay with you, but not WANT you? Of course not! Most of the population of women wants to be desired and feverishly so. Sooooo……make them look at you! Wear that sexy dress for the man you’re with or the one you want to get with. Make it impossible for them not to notice you! Guys: I got the memo, lol. I love the way my man looks at me, especially when I dress specifically for him. Now, I love to look good in general, but there is something to be said when a man (or woman, for those who prefer women) that looks at you like a treat that they will die unless they try, lol.

Second, guys I’m going to help you out a bit. Women like effort. Even if you’re not a romantic, romance goes a long way. Women are a LOT more likely to wear that skimpy dress or “be all over you” if we can see that you’re interested. Open the doors for us (even if we protest, because we are totally smiling inside), get us flowers (pick them, we don’t care!) and occasionally pamper us. A happy woman will do EVERYTHING to please her man! I am honestly always thinking about how I can make my man happy or what I can do to make his life better. It’s not because I have to or because he expects it. I’m in love and he makes me happy. That really is all it takes. {I’m glad he doesn’t know I have a blog, lol}

I am going to tell you the same thing that I told the ladies. Men, you do not need a woman to tell you that you are good enough or worth something. That kind of validity is reserved for your own judgement.

Questions, concerns or thoughts? Send them to boozeybluezey@gmail.com and I will chat with you myself!