Category: Life
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“For the Men”
Since I posted something for all the women out there, it is only fair that I do the same for the men. Just so you know though; since I am a female, this will still be from a woman’s perspective! Just saying! First off, I have spoken to several men in order to understand what…
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“For the Ladies”
How many of us have constantly had an issue with our “men” all looking the same (not physically, but emotionally)? They all spout a good game from the start. The problem is that it is just that. A game. In the beginning, that is what it is like. They dress nice and smell good when…
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Presence
I have often wondered about what kind of presence we have as people. Do the things that we say or do really make a difference? In my experience, our presence is mostly noticed by those we are closest to (examples: friends, relatives, lovers and even acquaintances). People know that they affect others, but most of…
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Venting…..
Sometimes we just need to vent. So……. I have an ex that decided to sleep with other women while we were married. One of which he got pregnant during our marriage. Once we were finally divorced (my doing), he married said person. It took a long time to get past the betrayal, but I came…
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Stress
Let’s talk about something we all know and….love, lol. Someone once asked me how to get rid of the stress in their life and the answer that I gave was definitely not one that they wanted to hear. I simply said, “You can’t.” I went on to try to explain the reason behind my response.…
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Doing the right thing.
Why is it that there are always people who want to try to make you feel bad when you do the right thing? It is already hard enough in society today, to do the right thing. It is honestly (and sadly) easier and faster to just “follow the crowd” instead of trying to stand up…
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Encouragement
Everyone knows that we are our own worst enemies. I am definitely a victim of myself, lol. I let too many things influence the way I feel, and as we all know – women are emotional. It is easy to allow the outside world to dictate our mood. Getting cut off in traffic tends to…
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Job turnover
How do you know if you have a good job or not? Does the turnover at the company really tell you anything? I have been working at the same job for a while now and I have seen many people come and go. I never really thought that turnover meant that the job was good…
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What does it mean to give or receive flowers?
So, I hear a lot of different things when it comes to giving and receiving flowers. Now I cannot speak for all people (men and women alike), but I will try to shed some light on the subject from my own point of view. Receiving. From women, I usually hear that they either want to…
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Taking Care of Yourself
Since when is taking care of yourself a bad thing? I am not sure why, but it seems that women (and occasionally men) feel as though taking care of themselves is selfish. When did we learn this?! Where is it written in stone that we should not take time to say: run a hot bath…